I don’t watch the Oscars, and haven’t seen a movie in ages.
But I know who Lupita Nyong’o is – who doesn’t? So when I stumbled across this I watched…and encourage you to as well.
Take less than five minutes to watch the incredibly gracious, brilliant and yes, beautiful Ms. Nyong’o talk about the intersection of race and beauty at the Essence Black Women in Hollywood Luncheon by clicking here.
“I had a spring in my step because I felt more seen, more appreciated by the far away gatekeepers of beauty, but around me the preference for light skin prevailed. To the beholders that I thought mattered, I was still unbeautiful. And my mother again would say to me, ‘You can’t eat beauty. It doesn’t feed you.’ And these words plagued and bothered me; I didn’t really understand them until finally I realized that beauty was not a thing that I could acquire or consume, it was something that I just had to be.
And what my mother meant when she said you can’t eat beauty was that you can’t rely on how you look to sustain you. What is fundamentally beautiful is compassion for yourself and for those around you. That kind of beauty enflames the heart and enchants the soul.”